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The Confident Pimp

You need to look and FEEL the part of a pimp.  Here are a few pointers.

If you shuffle from foot to foot or sway back and forwards when you’re talking, you’re not going to come across confidently.

It won’t matter if you are the most intelligent or biggest guy in the bar – you’re not going to get respect.  Pimping is about respect.  Fortunately there is simple to fix: plant your feet a little wider than feels natural,in a position that corresponds with your shoulders.   This is a solid base to start from, and it makes it more difficult to move around. It’s also the base stance for most martial artists.

2. Stop fidgeting

Look in the mirror and have a conversation with someone. What do you do with your hands when you are talking? Do you fidget with things, scratch yourself, touch your face? Stop!This is very unattractive and it screams out that you lack confidence.  Again, it’s easy to fix. Squeeze your first together to bunch up all that nervous energy and then release letting your hands fall naturally to your sides.

Doing this removes the need for the fingers to be active. You can (and should) still use your hands during the conversation, but when you use them now you’ll use them consciously, as tools.

3. Head up

Inexperienced or nervous guys look at their shoes, or the floor, or her shoes.  It looks terrible.  Eye contact is vital for confident communication.  You cannot convince a girl you can take care of her by looking at the floor.

Let me repeat that: eye contact is vital. Keep your head up, look her in the eye, and hold the contact. You can practice in the street – the next time you’re out, fix eyes with the girls that pass you and rather than looking away first, wait for them. If you want to up the ante a bit, give them a cheeky smile as they pass. You’ll be surprised how many smile back.

4. Make slow head movements


Be smooth.  Darting, jerking movements of the head suggest anxiety and lack of control.

Confident pimps move their heads with slow, subtle, languid movements as if nothing is bothering them and they are totally relaxed. Confident pimps get hos.

5. Walk slowly and smoothly

It’s not just your head movements that should be controlled and smooth – apply the same lesson to your body. Teach yourself to move with confidence and, apart from looking more confident, you’ll feel it too. When you’re in a social environment, moving slowly and with purpose really stands out.

6. Hold your drink by your side

There are a couple of tips when it comes to drinks. First, don’t drink too much – if you’re drunk and slurring you are not in control.   A couple of drinks aren’t bad but don’t hold your glass across your chest – this is a classic defensive posture and it will be noticed. Rest your glass on the bar or hold it by your side. That’s much more natural.

Just a few pimp secrets of body language.


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20 Responses to “The Confident Pimp”

  • totalbottom says:

    I wish I could be a real slave to a real pimp. I know I am a guy, but I am smooth, thin, and submissive. I need a man to use me and abuse me.

  • admin says:

    You left out one important description of yourself…age. How old are you? We like em young, but not too young.

  • Rosalie says:

    How Young Like… 15?

  • Jack says:

    faggot!

  • Rosalie says:

    Who????

  • JT says:

    15 is a bit young. To the guy with the faggot remark, you miss the whole idea of being a pimp. Support the gay lifestyle if they are part of your cru. Why? Because its just business. If he makes you money is the only thing that matters.

  • Rosalie says:

    I was asking because some guy made me his hoe and I was wondering if 15 was good bad really bad or awful… So yeah

  • JT says:

    I think 15 is too young so I would put in the “really bad” category. However, guys WILL pay a premium for pussy this young.

  • Rosalie says:

    Thanx Thats Great To know… By the Way How would You know This???

  • Chaalie Mack says:

    This website is interesting by nature, but I feel like a lot of people have misconceptions of street pimps. This game ain’t for no squares. Business is of course the title of the trade, but its so much deeper than any website could project. If you want to know about the game, the REAL game, the only entrance is through a real pimp.

  • admin says:

    Thanks for the comment Chaalie. Me thinks you are very correct. We probably fall more into the suburban condo scene than the inner city streets. We’re smart in that we know our limits :-) Keep pimpin!

  • Rosalie says:

    So are you a PIMP???

  • admin says:

    Hi Rose -

    Let’s talk about you chica. You’re obviously interested so give some details here. Describe your body.
    Do you speak spanish?
    Can you follow directions?
    Do you have any sex skills that you’ve learned?

  • Rosalie says:

    Ummm….
    I do speak Spanish
    Of Coarse I Can Follow Directions
    and Yes I have learned Sex Skills

  • admin says:

    How business Rosalie? Economy is hurting so my high paying clients are not calling but the low end broke dicks still come as normal.

    So it appears poor people value sex more than money while rich people value money more than sex.

  • Rosalie says:

    Im doing good… Not as Much Money But Still Good

  • Sofia says:

    Hey Rose, Where can I get new Laxitives???? I lost my others….

  • Jimmi says:

    hi ladies

  • Sofia says:

    Hey Sexi

  • rosalie says:

    I don’t KNow where and yea hi

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